You’re in love
You’re partner is just perfect
You’re very happy together
Life can’t get better than this…
THEN
You find out he/she is cheating on u…
You’re devastated
You confront him/her
He/she apologizes…it was a mistake…a one-off…never to happen again
Begs for your forgiveness
What do u do?
1) Forgive and give a second chance…everyone can make mistakes
2) Its the end of the relationship…you move on
3) Seek revenge and hurt them as much as they hurt u…if so, how?
4) Other…please specify :)
How do YOU deal (or have dealt) with unfaithfulness?
7 comments:
Kittie Kat:
now: before i give my choice:
there's ALWAYS a reason for cheating:
e.g.
1) maybe the cheater was not feeling fulfilled (emotionally, physically, etc)
2) or maybe the cheater is just a complete f*cktard and/or can't control his/her impulses:
3) maybe you had the wrong idea about your partner to begin with.
4) other ???
so each and every cheating case should be handled differently..
for me, it has to be one of the first two choices, depending on the case.
talk it through, figure out the cause, and then decide.
Honor-killing is not very healthy :))
now let me present you with a couple of harder questions:
-would the choices differ in either cases of Husband / Wife Cheating?
-why is it accepted that if a man cheats on his wife then there's not much harm done,
while if the wife cheats, then she is a dirty ho and should burn in hell?
-do they also differ in straight/gay relationships?
Well humans r weak specially against temptations and that is a truth we can’t deny (don’t get me wrong I do like humans cause they r delicious and they taste like chicken…;D) but there r certain things in this world that give strength to humans and LOVE is one of those (and I’m talking about true love) so if the love in a human heart is strong then he/she can overcome his/her weaknesses.
Now back to the subject in my opinion if a person truly loves another person then he/she can never cheat on him, why? Well it is simply because cheating is not an action that could be made in a split of a second since u can’t be sitting in your room then suddenly u r cheating on your partner. A chain of actions precedes cheating and everyone of these actions require thinking so a person is conscious during the whole operation so if he/she is conscious and he/she doesn’t think of his/her loved one, her/his feelings and how she/he will be hurt by his/her actions then what they have is not love in the first place.
wrong thread (or possibly wrong BLOG) n00b.
:)) have a nice day now
True anarki...there is always a reason for cheating...but that doesnt excuse it!!! if ur not happy, try working things out instead of cheating...if things cant be worked out, break up then start a new relationship!!!
Personally, i think that choice number 2 is most appropriate...i would NEVER stay with a cheating partner...no matter what his excuse/explanantion is! NO second chances!!!
My ONLY exception to that is if there is a kid between us...then for the sake of our child...i would give ONE more chance...and i mean ONE!!!
I dont think gender matters or makes a difference...a cheater is a cheater...and neither should be forgiven or overlooked.
And again, i dont think sexual orientation should make a difference...a cheater is a cheater...
Kyubai...true enough...
But i think even if love is not there, ppl should RESPECT their partners and seperate instead of cheat!
KK...
Lol!! walahi mish fahma wala kilma!!!
erm thank u for ur contribution anyway...:)
hmm.. No second chances.. well..
that IS sound in some cases, but, you have to remember: most of the time couples have no frikkin idea what their partner really is like till AFTER the marriage.
during courtship/engagement, everyone puts up his/her game face on, showing the best, hiding the rest.
i'm not excusing anyone, a cheater is someone who thinks with his/her ____ rather than his/her brain.
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